How do we promote healing of the hidden wounds of war in our communities and in our lives – what do we do After the Yellow Ribbon?
Veterans today suffer from the highest rate of suicide in our nation’s history, have startlingly high rates of prescription drug and alcohol abuse, and are often thought of as “damaged goods.” Our society must accept the responsibility of acknowledging and confronting the moral fragmentation that our service members suffer as a result of their experiences in war. Milites Christi invited practitioners of all disciplines, from music and the arts to theology and mental health, to respond to the challenge presented by the plight of soldiers and veterans in our midst. Let’s to work together to improve our efforts at prevention and reconstitution, and overcome this tragic epidemic.
Purpose of the Conference:
As a completely student initiated and led effort, we committed to learning from one another, presenters and participants alike. Several of the organizers, many of whom are themselves veterans, expressed overwhelming disappointment that conversations about military service (in classrooms, congregations, and clinics) have become overwhelmed by ideological or political influences. Individual service members, however, need to be able to have these conversations healthfully in order to process their experiences, which are often incredibly significant in their depth of meaning, but also their graphic nature – how do we glean these nuanced experiences from service members without putting them in the blinding glare of the social spotlight?
Our methodology for this conference was not authoritative; we never expected to have the answers, but wanted to guide churches and classrooms into more meaningful ways of interacting with those who commit violence in our name – whether we agree with it or not, whether it fits our ideological framework or violates it. Soldier suicides are at epidemic levels, and many of us feel that is reflective of our collective failure to have open, respectful, and meaningful dialog in our society. Our goal is not to give concrete answers, but inspire hope.
The conference was considered a success if, when folks left to return to their corner of the globe, they let out a big sigh… and took their next deep breath in, preparing for the work ahead. Many of our participants reported just that. In 2015, the responsibility of carrying the conversations from the conference forward passed to Centurions Guild, freeing Milites Christi to continue to focus on the needs and concerns specific to the Duke community.
COLLECTED MEDIA from #AfterTheYellowRibbon
- “Div School Group Emphasizes Veterans’ ‘Moral Sacrifice’” Alice Deguelle, Duke Chronicle, Oct. 28
- “Divinity Students Organize ‘After the Yellow Ribbon’” Andy Scott, Duke Divinity Communications, Nov. 3
- “Join the (Growing?) Conversation” Logan Mehl-Laituri, Red Letter Christians, Nov. 4
- “Ecumenical Eucharist Celebrating the Feast of St. Martin” David Steenburg, Goodson Chapel, Nov. 8
- “Duke Divinity School Explores Ministering to Veterans” David Crabtree, WRAL, Nov. 8
- “A preview of After the Yellow Ribbon at Duke University” Mitchell Lewis, UNC-TV, North Carolina Now, Nov. 8
- “After the War: Coming to Grips With Faith & Service” Dawn Vaughn, Durham Herald-Sun, Nov. 11
- “When Soldiers Become Saints” Shane Claiborne, Huffington Post, Nov. 11 (also with video HERE)
- “Kilner Explains the Overlooked Beauty of War” Yueran Zhang, Duke Chronicle, Nov. 14
- “How Churches Can Help Military Families” Dawn Vaughn, Durham Herald-Sun, Nov. 12
- “Healing the Unseen Wounds of War” Duke Divinity School, Nov. 18
- “Duke Divinity School Students Aim to Heal ‘Unseen War Wounds’” Religion Herald, Nov. 24